The NCLN, National Consumer Law Center, hosted a webinar today discussing self determination and safety for our elderly and disabled loved ones. The main premise of the webinar was to stress the importance of humans having the ability to exercise their right to choice at the greatest capacity possible for each individual. One of the points they drove home regarding choice is the rising occurrence of unnecessary guardianships which take the right of choice away. This is a problem because when we as humans have more choices we live a life of self determination which leads to a better life. That's what we want for our loved ones!
Along with leading safe lives come the topics of abuse and neglect. People who are experiencing abuse are less likely to speak up, especially if the offender is a loved one. So how can you tell if your loved one is experiencing abuse?
Our elders and disabled may have usual bruises and abrasions that you may be able to find on their elbows, knees, hands or shins from typical bumps into furniture or bracing themselves, but what to look out for are unusual marks. Doctors are trained to look for these signs, but you can help at home by keeping an eye out for bruises that are a-typical for the person in particular as well as emotional signs such as; becoming nervous, fearful or withdrawn in general or around specific a person.
Exploitation is also a concern. These signs will help you determine if the assigned caregiver is exploiting their position:
-the basic needs of the person are not being met
-bills are unpaid
-things go missing
-ATM activity is unusual for the circumstances
-what is the money being used for?
-unexplained changes in lifestyle, increase OR decrease
-exploiter joins in the bounty
Like children, adults may also experience neglect. Adults have the right to neglect themselves, but if you find a good social worker they may be able to help you and your family increase the quality of life for your family member or friend.
If your family has appointed a caregiver they have a legal obligation to meet the needs specified for their charge. Signs of neglect by a caregiver include:
-isolation
-changes in dress and hygiene
-weight loss/gain------->diet?
REMEBER this------ LOOK SMELL LISTEN
If it doesn't look, smell or sound right it probably isn't!
Again, choices equate to empowerment. I bet if you sit and think about it you can come up with a list of ways to help empower your loved one and give them choices. Here are some ideas to get you started. Remember, work together!
-Delivery services
-Housekeeping services
-Home health care services
-Home care services
Best of luck!
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